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Post by gerry on Dec 10, 2005 20:23:49 GMT -5
Okay, let me preface this by saying I hate people. I don't like being in crowds. I don't like being around people I don't know.
That means that I hate going out with friends that enjoy doing those things. Going out to the rockin bars and clubs. Now I really like these kids, and for the most part they have been good friends. But. . . There is something inside of me that tells me that they are starting to resent the fact that when they do the group outings, and I am not there, I lose whatever kudos I have with them by simply not being there. I have the fear that they may end up feeling that I don't like either: a. being around them b. don't want to be seen with them. Is there any way to deal with this without having to deal without actually going out?
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Post by Justhad on Dec 15, 2005 14:02:40 GMT -5
You could always invite them over, and have a small group get together. It'll keep you away from the crowds and make you more comfortable in your own home. Also, you can go to places where you know the crowds won't be - like having dinner early, or going to a less crowded movie theater. Try having them over or going to places where you feel the most comfortable to start with. I hope this helps!
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