NiftyGod27
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Post by NiftyGod27 on Mar 27, 2006 14:49:44 GMT -5
Dear Hadley
Me my best mate Tom and these two girls Lauren and Laura went out a couple of nights ago to see a school performance. Now i really like Lauren and she's a real flirt, so i was fliting back. The thing is she was flirting with Tom aswell, but i thought she was just messing about. She's got a boyfriend but he hardly see's her and she might be thinking of breaking up with him. Me and her get on really well and we have alot in common. The next day i was talking to Laura on MSN and she said she thought Lauren relly liked Tom, so i asked Lauren and she said she kinda does. So i asked Tom and he said he kinda liked her aswell. She asked me to get him to rate her and Laura out of 10, so i thought i would ask her the same but for me and Tom and she wouldn't answer even when i only asked about Tom. I thought this was really strange and that maybe she didn't like him, maybe it was me. At school she doesn't even look at him she spends most of her time with me, another thing i found strange. If she does split up with her boyfriend i was thinking of asking her out but i don't want to fall out with Tom, and if i did it would'nt be very nice because he's in most of my lessons and i sit next to him. But i don't want to just leave it if she does like me. What should i do -Dan
p.s Sorry for the rant
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Post by Justhad on Mar 27, 2006 22:55:20 GMT -5
Dan- First, my best advice is to give a girl some space post-breakup. She may think she's moving on, but it'll take her awhile. I'd suggest talking to Dan and seeing what he thinks about the girl, truly, and how he'd feel about you asking her out. If he's really keen on it, let him, you'll want your friendship later on. You may even find her friend attractive Plus, you can all still go out as a group, and you can still be friends with the girl. I'd suggest continue to talk to both of them and keep friendly with everyone. You know what they say, the best relationships stem from the best friendships! Hope this helps - if you have any more questions, let me know! Hadley
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NiftyGod27
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Post by NiftyGod27 on Mar 30, 2006 13:49:09 GMT -5
Thanks Hadley!
I was planning on leaving it for a while before asking her. I'm just dreading the nightmare sentence 'i like you as a friend'. and about her friend, well to put it bluntly NO, she's really not my type at all, she thinks every lad loves her and is a snappy lil bugger. She also has a bit of a reputation. Thanks for your help -Dan
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Post by Justhad on Jun 1, 2006 10:28:02 GMT -5
How's this been going Dan?
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